Most decisions don't even matter

You're here to gather experiences not figure out what's right

A few times a year, on my Facebook page, I offer One Question Readings from the group I channel, “BE’N The Gang.” I’m surprised and sometimes saddened by the kinds of questions I see coming in the comment free for all that happens on those posts.

You have a moment to ask any question of a set of crystalline beings, and you want to know the equivalent of should I buy apples or oranges, this car or that car, keep developing this XYZ that makes me incredibly happy but may or may not make me money?

It’s very clear, very quickly, who took the time to contemplate their question and who just popped something in there that they’re tired of thinking of and trying to decide about.

I get it!

For years the only thing I wanted to know was:

1. did I have a soul mate?

2. where the fuck was he?

Oh, those poor psychics, card readers, and channelers. I’m sure after meeting with me, they wanted to toss their tarot cards in the trash and go work at a gas station for the rest of their lives. Oh, and BTW, soul mates, the way they’re presented are bullshit.

Here’s the thing - those kinds of questions come straight from surface level Mind, and often BE shows me a shoulder shrug because there are no helpful answers to give.

Mind wants to get it right, doesn’t want to put out the effort of creation without a guarantee of a payoff and a payout, and for sure does NOT want to make a mistake.

But this group tells me again and again in an entire lifetime, there are only a handful of decisions that are pre-set before birth and change the track the life is running on. It’s very rare that any choice made is a mistake, although Mind will label it as one!

You cannot get it wrong.

You also cannot get it right.

There is nothing to “get.”

There is nowhere to “go.”

There are experiences to be had, and that’s the most important part of being alive. Experiences - nothing more than that, and how freeing is that?

Go do - go live - go feel all the feels!

If you’re into Human Design and are a Line 3 profile, you really need to master the art of refusing to label anything EVER a mistake, but that’s teaching for another day.

When you have a chance to ask a question, try to be specific so the reader can tune in to your energy field with more precision but also ask for awareness!

Evaluate where your question is coming from - what’s your motive? Are you asking to obtain release from anxiety or perfectionism or from a desire to grow and see more of who you are and why you’re here?

• Show me where I’m missing something that would be helpful to know about X?

• Help me see into my blind spots in situation Y.

• What questions should I be asking about Z?

• How can I expand my awareness?

• What hidden energies are limiting my experience of joy?

• What does my spirit team want me to know about______________?

• What does my book. program, dead parents, etc. want to tell me about_____________?

Now those are some nice meaty questions that generally open a flow of precise information for the asker!

You don’t have to follow me on Facebook to get in on those occasional One Question Readings days (love offerings are suggested but are also optional) because paid subscribers will be the only ones seeing them as soon as I pass 25 of y’all :-)

Write your questions down in a little notebook before bed, and pay attention - those answers are closer than you think!

XO,

LMW